Xiao Zhang has been married for more than two months, but his colleagues in the office have not seen his happy face after marriage. Familiar male colleagues privately asked him repeatedly what was wrong? It was the first time my wife and I weren't happy on our wedding night. Soon after insertion, ejaculation occurred involuntarily, which made the penis brittle and prevented us from continuing our married life. Later several times are so rushed, the wife complained, small chapter is very ashamed. In fact, many people will have Zhang Xiao's situation, early ejaculation is easy during the newlywed period, especially when the newlywed couple just started to live as a couple. As a result, both husband and wife are anxious and very distressed. The wife even suspected that the husband had any sexual problems威而鋼邊度買.

Why is premature ejaculation easier when you're married? The main reasons are as follows:

1, the "threshold" of newlyweds' sexual stimulation is low: because the pre-marital stage of love and intimacy, whether it is the "command" of the brain's sexual activity, or the sexual organs, are often in a high state of sexual excitement, which will inevitably lead to the ejaculation center is also in a state of sexual excitement, reducing the requirements for sexual stimulation, that is, reducing the "threshold" of sexual stimulation. At the same time, it is not surprising for a newly married man that when he first encounters a woman in the form of married life, the sexual stimulation comes suddenly and very strongly.

2. Over-stimulation of semen accumulation: Unmarried men should expel semen in the form of spermatogenic discharge because the reproductive organs produce a certain amount of semen威而鋼哪裡買. Newly married men have accumulated a considerable amount of semen in their sexual organs before the first sexual intercourse, which can produce a satisfying stimulation that coincides with the life of the husband and wife, and they cannot wait to expel it prematurely.

3. Sexual function has not yet adapted to the newlywed state: this does not refer to sexual function problems, but refers to the turning point in the couple's life form when sexual function plays a role. The initial phase may not be fully adapted. Various aspects of neurological and endocrine activity have not been fully straightened out. Premature ejaculation will occur in the initial stages. After gradual adaptation and habituation, the normal state will return.

How should newlywed premature ejaculation be handled?

1. Go with the flow

In general, premature ejaculation is mostly false and short-lived when a person has just gotten married, been separated for a while, is under tremendous pressure at work, or when a person is physically fatigued. Because newly married men have little sexual experience, all aspects of sex life are not fully coordinated, and their proficiency is low. However, on the night of the wedding, it happens that the spirit is in a state of high excitement. Large amounts of semen also accumulate in the sexual organs. In the case of strong sexual stimulation威而鋼購買, ejaculation will naturally occur eagerly. Male friends told themselves that premature ejaculation during the wedding was a normal physiological phenomenon, not a disease. Neither husband nor wife should worry about this. Do not think that this is caused by sexual dysfunction, so as not to increase the burden of thought, and then lead to real premature ejaculation. With the gradual adaptation of husband and wife life, the phenomenon of premature ejaculation will gradually disappear, generally without treatment.

2. Seek medical care and medication

According to the above, premature ejaculation is usually cured at the time of marriage. However, after a period of couple life, some men still do not improve in terms of premature ejaculation, so they need to see a doctor in time.

(1) Patient data: The treatment of premature ejaculation requires mining a large number of patient data, which requires doctors to conduct detailed inquiries through communication with patients to understand the inner thoughts of patients. Only in this way can patients be trained, psychological problems solved and the first step to overcome premature ejaculation.

(2) Various tests: check whether there are physiological reasons. Patients with primary premature ejaculation are caused by a metabolic disorder (abnormal regulation) of serotonin reuptake. Serotonin reuptake inhibitors (ssris) are primarily used therapeutically and are drugs that improve nerve energy and prolong ejaculation time.

(3) Physical therapy: In addition to drug therapy, there are many physical methods to improve the symptoms of premature ejaculation. At present, the treatment of premature ejaculation has "stop-move two-step training method", sexy focus training and pelvic floor muscle training威而鋼哪裡買.

In fact, I know that premature ejaculation is a normal occurrence among newlyweds and will get better after a period of adjustment. Once the newlyweds ejaculate quickly, I don't have to worry. Otherwise, I would mistakenly believe that sexual dysfunction would cause psychological and spiritual harm, which would actually induce sexual dysfunction. Of course, male friends with real problems shouldn't be hard to deal with either. Only by finding a doctor as soon as possible can you have a better life.